
ADVOCACY

WHAT IS ADVOCACY?
That's a question that can be confusing in today's world, and in our best attempt to help you become a self-advocate, we want to provide a clear explanation of what it is . . . and what it's not!
Advocacy: n. advəkəsē The practice of using your voice, your desires and choices, and actions to protect what matters most to you.
Practically, here are great examples of what advocacy is:
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Recognizing and clarifying what you need, and helping to shape decisions that affect your life directly.
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It shows up when you ask a question that you may feel nervous to ask because you think it may sound silly, like when you ask for clarity on information before you can make a decision.
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Advocacy is closely connected to your safety and respect, because clear communication reduces confusion.
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Advocacy helps prevent completely avoidable problems.³ ⁵
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Advocacy is where you and your medical team work together to compare care options, discuss benefits and risks, and together choose the best plan of care that matches your values and real-life concerns.⁶ ⁷
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Advocacy is a learnable set of skills practiced in small, manageable ways, even when you may feel tired, anxious, or insecure. Even those of us with quiet voices can learn to be advocates. This is why we treat self-education as a form of preparation, removing unnecessary pressure that's counterproductive! You got this!
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Advocacy is about how you create conditions for good decisions for your unique situation: asking for clear information and explanations, confirming you understand, and requesting more so your next steps are clear.³ ⁵ ⁹
Now let's look at examples of what advocacy is not:
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Advocacy is not combative in tone or practice. It should never be perceived by others as "cruelty dressed up as confidence."
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Advocacy isn't the practice of talking over people or humiliating others to prove your point. It's never about trying to "win" by any means necessary, or in the tone of how you say what you say!
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Advocacy is not a "listening to respond" act. It's about listening to understand. That's how respect is created.
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Advocacy isn't about demanding a specific outcome without listening to the evidence and context.
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Advocacy's not about spreading rumors, sharing private details, or using someone else's story as your own! It's about respecting others with your best understanding of when it's appropriate to share.¹ ²
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Advocacy is not about giving medical advice when you're not a medical specialist.
Understanding how you advocate matters as much, if not more, than why you advocate. Advocating with respect builds trust while still protecting your rights and needs. Done carelessly, it creates confusion and unnecessary strain with others. Advocacy is really about taking our lived experience and presenting it in a way that is heard, understood, and actionable.
ALWAYS REMEMBER - YOUR VOICE MATTERS!
Below are FAQs for you to dive deeper, on your own time and pace, and learn more about patient-specific issues you may deal with. More will be added in the future!
This is just a start on what advocacy is and how it empowers your, and others. We'll be adding more information as time allows, so check back often!
DON'T TAKE OUR WORD FOR IT . . .
The NeuroSpark Foundation is not a group of doctors or a hospital, but a community of people living with deep brain stimulation, care partners, and allies who have learned to ask hard questions and dig into the research.
We read medical papers, follow experts, and share trusted sources so you can check information yourself and bring stronger questions to your own medical team. Nothing here is medical advice, and only your doctors can tell you what to do, change, start, or stop; our role is to help you understand the language, find solid information, and become a more confident self-advocate in your care.